Lingerie, for men or women? Does it matter who wears it?

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By lynn_p

Lingerie

Can we tear down societies view of who can or cannot wear lingerie? What exactly is lingerie? Lingerie is nothing more than a piece of clothing albeit it is labelled women's. So what if it of soft smooth fabric, is that exclusive to women? Styles should not be an issue, women are wearing Y-fronts, why can't men wear NO-fronts? Color, who decided that blue is boy and pink is girl?

I have a MAN that likes to wear certain lingerie, and I accept that. I have chosen to switch to cotton panties, but do wear other lingerie. Am I acceptable, but he's not? By the way, we still have a healthy sex life!

Is a man gay for wearing lingerie, hell NO!!!

Is a women gay for wearing men's style underwear or cloths, hell NO!!!

Feminine or masculine, maybe!!! Perhaps all of us are a little of both. The dictionary doesn't define these words as wearing certain clothing, but society does.

Equality, maybe!!! Women's history has been a fight for equality in the world, masculine - NO! Perhaps men are seeking equality.

Politically correct - who defines that?

Why do we have to define the boundaries of everything? Boundaries have always been torn down and rebuilt. Can't this!

Lastly, who says what is right or wrong for a person? No-one can tell another person what choice to make. The ultimate decision is his or hers, it may come with unwelcome circumstances however. We are all different, why do we point fingers?

Be happy with yourself and let others be happy!!!!!!!!!

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SatinJenni 3 years ago

Hello Lynn and nice to stumble upon your writings, I must agree I support your perspective regarding men wearing womens lingerie.

I believe the Internet has allowed men to realize many other men also prefer satin and lace underwear to wearing potatoe sack cotton briefs. Unfortunately lingerie is predominately sold only in the ladies wear department. There seems to still be a social stigma associated with shopping for panties and bras, what a shame otherwise retailers just might double their sales figures at a time they need to most.

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50 Caliber Level 7 Commenter 3 years ago

Hell yes! My wife picks out my panties and I proudly wear them as one of the greatest gifts given me, second only to her!

I would be happy to wear a skirt on a hot summer day at times rather than hot clingy jeans, so I could feel the breeze on my shaven legs. I'm neither gay, bi, or feminine.

In history in the days of Jesus, they got to wear a dress like robe leaving them to freedom, I'd like the same only with panties.

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pantiesbob 3 years ago

Hi Lynn_P, I agree with your article. Wish more women were open minded as you.

I wear panties 24/7 and am happy doing it, My wife is very supportive of the panties and satin pj's.

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